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[quote=Anonymous] My friend has a sister like this, who threatens, and has occasionally attempted, suicide when her family is reluctant to once again pay to get her out of her own messes. She is a drug addict. My friend has been in therapy for years to manage both the resentment and guilt it has created. Lovely, isn't it? So, you draw up certain rules according to her capacity to function. Can she really be financially independent with a job? Is she emotionally and mentally stable enough to hold down a job? In that case, take a harder line that includes what PPs said. If there is some doubt, you can also reassure her that if she is homeless or starving, you will help her (and pay the landlord directly, as well as having groceries delivered). You never give her money directly if she can't be trusted to spend it wisely. Use a gentle voice, but direct language. The meaning has to be crystal clear. [/quote]
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