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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Trading a blow job for cleaning? That's an unhealthy dynamic. Give blowjobs and have sex. Or don't. But don't make them transactional. [/quote]

This. I know how tempting it can seem to get something in return when sex feels like a chore, as it sometimes does, [b]but for the sake of your marriage put on a happy face and pretend you are doing it for no other reason than because you want your husband so bad you can't keep your hands off. (When he's in a good post-coital mood it's perfectly fine to ask for a few chores, so long as there's no reference to the two things being connected in any way.)[/b]

And yes, of course, your DH sucks for leaving the house a mess, sex or not. Sit your pregnant ass on the couch and let him deal with it when he gets home. [/quote]

I do this all the time.  I don't understand why so many people don't understand the special circumstances here.  I NEVER say no to sex, even if I don't feel like it, am sick, etc.  I've even had sex while being treated for a UTI, just to make sure I'm not denying his needs.  [/quote]

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