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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Contemplating a LTR and possibly marriage, but parenting is not for me. So I just need honest answers from both DHs and DWs. With all the complexities that come with parenting and marriage (loss of libido, no time for sex, finances, etc) do you think you would remain madly in love with, and sexually drawn to that s/o of yours forever had kids not been in the mix?

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DH here, The kids are really the best part of our marriage.  My bad parts of our marriage were there before we had kids.  I LOVE my kids but having them makes it harder to leave my bad marriage.  We were sexless roommates before kids and we are sexless roommates who are co-parents after kids. Our best sex and the only unprotected sex that we had was when we tried to conceive our kids.   I always thought that our marriage would get better... But I don't think that she really loved me.  Now that I want to end my failed marriage... I am stuck because I don't want to hurt my kids.

When I do get divorced and find someone else that I want to marry.. I would prefer someone that already has kids and does not want more.  I have already experienced the early stages of kids.  Even though I loved that stage, I don't need to do it again.  So if and when I remarry, I would want to marry someone who has kids but does not want more...[/quote]

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