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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I asked all the right questions but I was not smart enough to make conclusions from his answers and my observations. [/quote]
Similar. I asked alot of the right questions but ignored the day to day observations that conflicted with our discussions. In hindsight there were signs I should have acknowledged. Also, earlier in the marriage once the discrepancy was out in the open if you will I should have called DW on it.  I also sometimes wonder if alot of DW want to get married and wait until a ring is on their finger. I know the DWs here will flame me but I believe it is true. Young girls grow up playing with dolls and talking about husband and wife and their wedding. I think we program them unfairly and they are driven to catch a mate. I married in mid/late twenties. Should have waited to be more mature and probably should have had more relationships. So that I knew when to call bullshit on certain behaviors. Water over the dam at this point...[/quote]

Sometimes waiting doesn't help. I asked my then fiance if we were going to have more sex once we lived together, and he said of course. Should have realized that a guy who doesn't get married until he's 33 and had years between relationships is not all that motivated by sex.[/quote]

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