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[quote=Anonymous]There seems to be a pattern of you making decisions for the both of you, or you thinking you know what is going on in your wife's mind. Have you asked her, and really talked with her in an open and CARING way, what she thinks about your marriage. Don't try to be a know-it-all. You MUST give your wife the option of going to couple's counseling instead of deciding unilaterally how the marriage is going to run. You must allow your wife to have a say in her marriage, too. You must acknowledge your wife's opinions in your marriage. Stop making decisions that will affect her without her.

It's not just your wife that needs the marriage counseling; frankly, it seems that you need to be able to take a good look at your own assumptions in your marriage.

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce. I could never be married to a man who fucked other women, even if sex life was dead. Rather be divorced. [/quote]

OP here.  I am pretty sure my wife would agree with you.

I am considering individual counselling to make sure this is really what I want.  I don't want to blow up the family home if I can avoid it.  C[b]ouples counselling seems pointless, no?  I can't imagine it is going to put DW in the mood if she is being told that her marriage depends on it. [/b] I would rather masturbate than have sex with an unwilling spouse.

Thanks for all the valuable input.  [/quote][/quote]

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