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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce. I could never be married to a man who fucked other women, even if sex life was dead. Rather be divorced. [/quote]

OP here.  I am pretty sure my wife would agree with you.

I am considering individual counselling to make sure this is really what I want.  I don't want to blow up the family home if I can avoid it.  Couples counselling seems pointless, no?  I can't imagine it is going to put DW in the mood if she is being told that her marriage depends on it.  I would rather masturbate than have sex with an unwilling spouse.

Thanks for all the valuable input.  [/quote]

Sometimes the couples counseling is what it takes for her to realize what is happening.  And she'll see that if things don't change in the relationship, that you are willing to divorce.  This may be a wake up call that she needs because a lot of times, just having the DH telling the DW (or visa versa) that things aren't right.....doesn't mean they'll accept it.

Also, the counselor isn't going to just say SHE needs to do this or that.  It will be a couples approach where both of you will have to make changes regardless of what you tried.

Counseling won't hurt and will be a last ditch effort to keep the family together.  If she isn't willing to work on changing things, then you really have no choice if the current way of life is unacceptable.

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