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[quote=Anonymous]Except you haven't tried marriage counseling. You need to actually discuss this with your wife in front of a trained third party. From, this post, it seems that you think you have the right to call the shots and leave your wife with your only two options. Don't be an asshole jerk. What do you think is her side of the story? If you don't know, you have a lot of work to do, my friend.

[quote=Anonymous]Long story short: typical situation - kids came, sex life went down hill.  Never recovered, I have tried the talk, toys, books, date night, [b]nothing works[/b].  Don't want to live in a marriage without at least occasional sexual passion.  So we need to split or open marriage.  Problem is my DW will never agree to an open marriage willingly.  She may grudgingly accept because she is a SAHM and may feel like she has no other options.

I think the ethical thing is to just serve the divorce papers and keep it civil since we have to raise kids.  And if I do serve her with papers, do I owe her an explanation or can I say we just grew apart?  I love her and want her to do well, but I fell out of romantic love with her over the years of our asexual marriage.[/quote][/quote]

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