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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I have a feeling that this came to light less than a year ago. If I am correct, then you are in the wrong about wanting the family to move past it. Create a five-year goal and that will be much more realistic. I think apologizing to your In laws one on one would be a good idea. At a certain point when your wife chooses, she will need to tell her family to back down and support her. [/quote]

Why should he apologize to the in-laws? The issue was, and is, between him and his wife. The in-laws are her family, not the aggrieved party. I think it was wrong for her to trash talk him (versus getting support); this will definitely make their efforts to reconcile way more difficult. [/quote]

You apologize to the affected parties. Primarily to the wife, but also to her family since he let them down. That is just how families work.

What did you expect, OP? You fucked up and this us part of the price you pay. Be really good to your wife, never screw up so royally ever again, and it will get better over time. Apologize over and over. This is NOT the time to be indignant.[/quote]

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