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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also, is he sure that he is gay? Has he never been attracted to women? I think people sometimes have feelings for members of the same sex. That doesn't automatically make you gay. I have experienced this, but never acted on it. Basically, feeling very close and even sexual towards someone of the same sex doesn't mean you are gay. In his case, he basically has a crush on a friend, at the same time that the passion in his marriage is low. I think this is confusing him.

I would recommend that he not do anything rash.

Also: ladies please take note of the fact that an apparently gay man was able to hold an erection and impregnated a woman twice. Women are wrong to assume that an inability to get an erection means lack of attraction. Sometimes, I get hard just being very relaxed, thinking about nothing. Erections are very much about being relaxed and feeling comfortable with someone. [/quote]

I'm sure he's certain because of the way he's talking about hiding his feelings for so long. You make great points though and I do think sexuality exists on a sliding scale.[/quote]

Is he attracted to his wife? I mean,  beyond "he loves her." [/quote]

He loves her but not sexually attracted to her. They both wanted children and well...here they are.[/quote]

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