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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Instead of listening to a third party gossip you should confront one of the siblings.

The explanation could be as simple as your husband didn't seem to enjoy the beach last year, so we were going to invite you on a different vacation this year rather than "we don't like your husband."[/quote]

This is good advice. You should confront them about the small house, and you can even say "I'm hurt that you didn't invite us. Is there someone in my family you don't like or get along with?" Without revealing what the other relative told you. Yes, this is confrontational, but passive-aggressive people (which it seems like given the small house) need to be confronted about their poor behavior.

FYI, you probably won't get an answer you're satisfied with, but at least they will know you can stand up for yourself. And then go off on the vacation you, DH, and kids have always wanted to go on but never did bc you've spent all that money visiting relatives who may or may not like you.[/quote]

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