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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jeez, I'm getting rejected 95% of the time so what is that guy complaining about?[/quote]

But I imagine you're not in your twenties with no kids?
[b]She's not attracted to him, plain and simple.[/b] She shouldn't have married him knowing that, but her friends were probably marrying off and she felt it was time. For his part, if they had a bad sex life before they got married he shouldn't have expected it to magically change. They should divorce before they have kids and are trapped. It will only get worse.[/quote]

[b]Maybe she just has a low sex drive[/b].[/quote]

That is not a valid excuse at all.  If you are LD and you know your DH has a high desire and you don't meet halfway, what does that say about you?  Selfish?  Hell yeah!   A low sex drive is not a valid excuse.  You are in a marriage. [/quote]

The point isn't whether or not it's a valid excuse.  The point is whether she says no because she isn't attracted to him, or for some other reason.  You can't automatically assume it's a lack of attraction.[/quote]

The assumption might be unreasonable for any of these individual excuses, but with them all piled on top of each other like that, lack of attraction is a fairly reasonable conclusion. [/quote]

So is LD.[/quote]

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