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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am a guy and can relate to what you are saying.
 
I was once involved with a divorcee who as about ten years older than me. The relationship was just great sex - actually mind-blowing sex. I never led her on but I did not want her to feel that she was just someone I wanted to fuck and nothing else. But I think she knew it at some level that it was only physical because we'd never go out together. I'd just go to her place in the morning before work - and at other times after work - and we'd have sex and then I'd leave. On one occasion she did ask me where our relationship was headed and I told her that marriage was not something that I was even remotely interested in. But I told her that any time she wanted sex, I'd be there for her. She asked me to promise and I did.

She told me on a couple of occasions that she was bothered at times that our relationship was only sexual ...... but that is how it remained. It was a relationship that lasted a couple of years and then she said she was going on vacation to the Canary Islands and thereafter I lost touch with her.

So, although your guy may convey the impression that he is looking for more, it is likely that he is saying this more to make you not feel used.[/quote]

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