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Reply to "DH expects me to be his personal shopper"
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[quote=Anonymous]Doing something for your spouse doesn't make you a doormat. Especially is this distribution of work was a mutual decision. Not sure why people are calling you a doormat OP. A lot of very unhappily married people I guess who are resentful of doing anything for their spouse. Talk to him about what the issue is. Not in the moment when he is annoyed but set a time aside. Be specific - you tell me to get what you like and don't give me specific foods but then you complain that there is nothing to eat. How should we remedy this? You can say the tasks you are happy to keep doing (shopping, cooking, lunch) but that you aren't happy having him complain about what you do. Ask him how together you can come up with a solution that you are both happy with. Maybe you could save $30 or something from your once a week grocery trip and leave that for him to go out and buy what he wants in the middle of the week. [/quote]
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