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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dude obviously wants something sexually. He has condoms and talks about "what if" scenarios (and had probably already had them). Everything about this screams sexual, but you want to ask a message board what to do.

Either divorce the fool or give what he wants so he doesn't feel the need to look elsewhere for whatever it is he wants to experience.

He probably feels age catching up with him and doesn't want to die never having experienced things. [/quote]

Married woman here.  I started cheating because H told me point blank he wouldn't do something pretty normal that I really want. His reason was that I never used to want it. I said that people change. He won't. So I have someone on the side who loves to give me exactly what I need. Been seeing him on and off for 9 years. No emotional attachment but fills this one particular need I have.[/quote]

Thank you for this post. No doubt, I'd be attacked as a male for suggesting that, yes, the spouse who denies some particular act is opening up cheating by giving the other no (ethical) way to get what they want.

1) Give up ever getting it. 
2) Attempt to get it from spouse who will call you a whiner. Many women on DCUM love that term for a man who wants something sexual. 
3) Get it on the side.

Sexual health is not guaranteed to last. If your spouse won't give you something (that's not harmful), the. The only way to get that experience is elsewhere. 
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