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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your first priority is getting on the same page with your partner in regards to how you two will handle issues with each other's parents. [/quote]

For the most part we are on the same page. I believe this is more of a personal issue.  I am outspoken regarding social issues. My partner shares my beliefs in a much more personal matter. His view is that everyone is entitled to hold their own beliefs. [b]My view is that people should be verbal when other's beliefs are harmful.[/b] [/quote]

You're wrong, quite frankly. You sound like an immature 20-something who's recently decided on a viewpoint and wants to share this fantastic viewpoint with the world. Her praying to Jesus for you to get pregnant, get the job you want, learn to love Jesus and accept him into your heart at your one true savior, or get over your cold before your vacation will not harm anyone. [/quote]

OP here. When people are bigoted, I feel that is harmful. When people think I lack morals bc I don't believe in a religion, I do think that is harmful. Maybe I should reiterate, I would never bring this up as a topic. She prays and makes many mentions of god and the like. I have no problem in that. I can foresee her making a judgemental and rude comment regarding those who don't believe. My question, which I should have been more clear on, is  "Do I mention that I am an atheist IF she makes a condesending, rude comment?".

Again, I do find it harmful to be inaccurately judged. [/quote]
Aren't you in accurately judging her for something she has not done?[/quote]

Again, OP said "IF/WHEN." No judgement was made. The fact that she hasn't made the remark is IMPLIED under "if/when."
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