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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I might be your SIL. I'm not mean and I don't do it to hurt anyone's feelings, but my parents and fam are in the area, so hence, there are a number of postings of DD with Gm or whatever and occasionally labeled "best Meemaw ever" (i carefully use the "Gm" name given to my mom, at least most of the time). Also, my fam goes above and beyond for us and our kids, babysitting, and tons more. They are our rock. Our in laws sweep in twice a year with a hundred demands and then expect to be waiting on and taken out to fancy dinners. So, not much to post about with them.

I think your best response is to block (if it hurts your feelings) and then deflect your family members, Why on earth are they calling you? That sounds pretty catty and gossipy and immature to me and makes me wonder if your SIL is actually posting passive aggressive stuff on purpose to piss off the whole gang, because she knows how the gossip goes around... Just a thought...

I am not Fb friends with my MIL.[/quote]
You do it to hurt people's feelings. Look at what you wrote. You have an agenda and you fulfill it on FB. Grow up! All of us have people we are closer to than others, but some of us don't feel the need to try to smear all over the internet in some kind of passive-aggressive way to hurt the feelings of others. What are you -- in the 8th grade?[/quote]

NP here. I disagree with you. The PP wants to post about her life and the people close to her. Sounds like her in-laws aren't close. Unlike OPs situation, the PPs family aren't equally involved. That's just life. Doesn't mean she needs to refrain from posting about the day to day happenings or refrain from expressing love and appreciation. [/quote]

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