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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make sure he thinks a "hand job" is sex.  I used this to up our frequency, only to find out DH didn't count it, remained pissed.[/quote]

Since you brought this up...

Pro:
1. A good handjob is off the chart amazing. Self-service can't even come close.
2. The giver can decide how long the HJ lasts, and so the giver can make it a quick one or drawn out depending on her (or his!) mood.
3. It can, hopefully, get the otherwise uninterested giver wildly horny.
4. It's nice once in a while to sit back, relax, and let your flight crew take care of everything.

Con:
1. Handjobs don't have the same level of intimacy as sex, so they don't entirely serve the same purpose.
2. Most men (most) need to give something back to the giver; or at least reciprocate at another time. If the giver doesn't become the receiver on occasion, it places physical intimacy in a tenuous position.
3. Relative to 1. above, a bad handjob is like using a belt sander on your dong. 
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A nice BJ counts. I don't think a handy does though.[/quote]

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