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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Um, I'm a guy and I hate being expected to be "charlie check-in" (calling or texting everytime I fart or change rooms) when travelling, but let me tell you: no, you are not being unrealistic! If you wanted some validation, there you go...your husband's current pattern is definitely way of down one end of the curve. As someone else said, there is no independent "right" answer about how much is enough - only what you two agree on, and it sounds like he's not willing to give you what you want. Unless he's travelling someplace (eg, Africa, Afghanistan) where communications are spotty then it's just a matter of his unwillingness to do it. That doesn't make him "wrong" in the general sense, but wrong for you for sure.[/quote] This is great advice. I also hate to "check in" or feel like I need to be constantly available for spousal communications, but one convo (or just an "I love and miss you" text) a day is totally reasonable, IMO. [/quote]
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