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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One question might be what is meant by initiating? Does it have to be verbal? Physical? Can it be a non-verbal signal such as wearing sexy lingerie or giving a partner a heated glance?[/quote] I'm the wife whose husband insisted I learn to initiate. At first I basically had to do it all. I had to find a way to tell him I wanted to have sex, I had to instigate the foreplay, etc. I remember once saying it and he stood up, smiled, and held his arms out wide, like "You want me? Come get me," and I had to undress him. He was really just pushing me to be assertive and be comfortable being that way (I had some issues). Now, I can do a lot less to initiate - he really just wants some sort of green light so as to cushion the male ego from being rejected. I've done as little as touch his butt while he's washing dinner dishes as I walk by, or send a flirty text on my way home from work, etc. [/quote]
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