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Reply to "DWs: Do you sometimes pretend to be less interested in sex than you are?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not the direct "no"s that are so much of a problem for us. If she says "no" straight out, it's pretty clear that's what she means. Less clear are the "soft" or preemptive "no"s. When I'm trying to flirt - the "I'm tired" or "I feel bloated" or "the kids are still awake" or when I start kissing on her trying to get something started, the inert response. Most of the time, I'll just bail out after one of these soft or preemptive nos. And often enough, that's what she wants. But, other times, I think she wants me to push a little harder, pursue her, make her feel desired. But I'm just not good at distinguishing "pursue me" from "go away." I don't mind making an effort, but if I throw a bunch of effort against what's intended as a "go away," then I'm just being an asshole. [/quote]
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