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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you sure she wants you to set up her dating life? Unless she asks for help, I'd respect her ability as an adult to decide what she wants.

BTW, the fact that she was a caretaker for a few years really should not have prevented her from having relationships. If she really wanted one, she would have found a way.

She has chosen this route for some reason. There's nothing necessarily wrong with it. But, to just say she is shy is a bit simplistic.[/quote]

I 2nd the notion.  Pretty presumptuous to suppose a grown woman - an intelligent caring woman of high character - is too incompetent to handle her own love life.  And even if she was what makes you think you're the right person to take over for her?  Hell what makes you think she even wants your help?  Maybe you should mind your business.[/quote]

Over the past year, her sister and I have talked with my cousin multiple times about her future plans, not just about her  love life, when my aunt passes away. She said that she wants a small dog, would enjoy a Caribbean vacation,  and to meet a nice guy. She herself said she has not dated much because of being shy and not wanting to leave her mother alone in the evenings.

I don't want to take over finding a life mate for her, I just want to give her an appropriate tool to meet nice men. She can use it or not use it.

She's been a caretaker more than just a few years. More like 20+ years. Her sister joined the military at 18 and only recently moved back to this area. So the 33 year old was caring for their mom in elementary school. [/quote]

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