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[quote=Anonymous]A group of close friends hanging out at a bar together is intimidating to a man. Not many would walk up to a group of women like that and those who would aren't necessarily looking for a relationship.

If you want to be approachable, you have to sometimes be alone. Not alone alone, as in walking down a dark alley alone but in a social setting where people are mingling and switching up conversation partners often enough - like the interest based meet up groups PPs recommended, young adult night at a church, a sport, etc. You need to pursue your interests with people who share your interests so you & the men you meet can have something to chat about and connect over off the bat.

Also, watch your body language - says a lot about whether you'd welcome some one's interest. After a tough break up, I found that I wore a "F off" stamped on my forehead for like a year even though I didn't mean to - no one really pursued me in that year. When I realized what I was doing and made more of an effort to be open and friendly, I got a lot of interest.

Lastly, proactively express your interest. And keep the stats of DC in mind so you don't assume it's all you - some women are simply going to be single in this town, and there will be more single women than men. That's just a facet of DC. [/quote]

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