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[quote=Anonymous]I have a mentally ill family member who has exhibited violent behavior previously, so it seems different than OP's situation (seems like she doesn't have knowledge of violence but is worried about it).  But I understand being concerned about someone just showing up and doing something harmful.  I have lived with the fear that my family member will show up uninvited at my home or work (in fact, she threatens this at least several times a year - with cryptic warnings about the "consequences" of her showing up).  Although my situation sounds different, one thing that has provided me ease of mind is simply having an alarm system.  I know that if she just shows up in a violent state, I can just not open the door and if necessary the alarm could go off if she tried to force her way in.  So, for a practical piece of advice, an alarm system may make you feel better.

This little piece of advice is regardless of whether OP's fears are warranted.  I know my concerns are legitimate due to numerous past incidents, but it seems OP does not have the same experience.  Nevertheless, sometimes simple things can set a mind at ease even if fears are not totally rational.  [/quote]

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