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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Starting private in the fall and my husband and I are in disagreement over donating money through fundraisers or contributing cash to the teachers holiday gift fund. I can afford to give a little here or there, but why? The tuition is ridiculously high and its not my responsibility to fund the financial aid program. DH disagrees and says we will get branded. At our over the top preschool, we were "asked" to make a suggested donation of $30 per child to the teacher's Christmas bonus fund. Not a huge amount, but I chose not to give because I felt like why should I give when I'm already overpaying for what is basically very fancy day care. Please educate me, these tuition prices are so over the top that they can survive without extra pennies from our family. [/quote]

You will probably be happier in public school. You will be asked every year to donate to the annual fund, auction, etc. That is simply the way private schools operate. If that makes you crazy, you will likely be unhappy with your choice to send your child to a private school. Sometimes parents are asked to donate $30 for a gift that is then from all of the students. This keeps "over the top" parents from sending expensive gifts to teachers. If you are uncomfortable with the gift, I think it is fine not to contribute. Ask your kid to write a thank you note either way which will be appreciated by the teacher. However, you should be willing to donate to the annual fund. Teachers are also asked to donate. The percentage of donors is important for the school in obtaining large donations, and it shows a commitment to the school.[/quote]

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