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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Call it intuition but I got a feeling OP is somewhere between average and ugly so seriously doubt there'd be any worries from her husband about somebody stealing her away.[/quote]

Once again another example of why I don't go out of my way to make female friends.

I'd rather have beer pong buddies than catty back-stabbing frenemies. And obviously those friendships with my frat brothers evolved from college...did you read the part about my sons godfather?

Off the top of my head I can think of four women who have been deliberately mean and hateful to me. One guy has done so...and he was the only one to apologize.[/quote]

But you admitted that when you get into a fight, you're not so nice, and that you're probably the problem. So don't blame "frenimies" and cattiness on what are, by your own admission, simply consequences to your own bad behavior. So you are looking to set your bar lower, so that you can meet those standards.

That's not being mean to say that. That's pointing out what you yourself are saying. Most women want more than that and expect their friends to not say "not nice" things when they fight. Why do you want that for yourself but aren't willing to give it?[/quote]

Um I'm not OP I'm PP who was a frat little sister. If any thing I'm too nice and some people see that as a weakness to exploit. So they put me down to make themselves feel better. Again this is mostly women.  When people say mean things to me IRL I freeze up or burst into tears...and they "win" in their eyes.[/quote]

And you sound a little too caught up in that "cool girl who can hang out with the boys" kind. But if it works for you and elevates your self-esteem, all the power to you.[/quote]

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