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[quote=Anonymous]Wine sure loosens the tongue, doesn't it OP?

All kidding aside, I feel for your friend. She obviously has been carrying around this guilt for a very long time + probably has no one in her immediate life that she feels comfortable talking about this too w/out feeling like she is being judged. Everyone needs that ONE friend we can talk to about every and anything...That one friend who won't judge us...Who will just listen to us and no matter what we tell them, will still like us the same. She obviously thought you were "that friend" and thus confided in you, but from what you are saying here, you are not.

You don't sound like you truly are "good friends" like you stated in your title, because if you were truly a good friend, you wouldn't be so harsh in your opinions.
No one is perfect and maybe you do not agree w/her actions. But as her friend, part of being a good friend is to look past her faults and continue loving her as your friend in spite of her short-comings.

If you truly cannot see past this, then I would say you two are not a good match and it would be best for both of you if you just sever ties.[/quote]

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