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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I i understand the posters who are actually trying to minimize the dysfunction of this mother-in-law you all have to be as crazy as she is!
Mother-in-law can hate father-in-law never speak to him again never want to be in the same room with him even reside on the same side of the country, but to actively,actively estrange your self from your children and REQUIRE requires THEM to estrange themselves from their father, and to not  speak to your child because he Speaks to his own father is a special form of dysfunction that needs not to be enabled.[/quote]
Meant to say I DO NOT understand posters minimizing MIL's crazy.[/quote]

Or, you have family that stopped speaking with each other over various things.  Even my DH with the normal family had an aunt on one side of the family stop speaking with a parent and a first cousin that has a chilly reception based on some things of at least 15 years ago.  I had to learn long ago people will feel entitled to their feelings and you can't reason with crazy.  All I can do is in raising my own children try to prevent the trigger points that may have caused some of the dysfunction (I.e. Do my part for a healthy marriage, not play favorites in life or after death via our wills), try to take the high road and leave the door open should someone want to walk thru it.[/quote]

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