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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's fine to meet with an old friend even an old girlfriend.  Your ex's wanting to meet sounds innocent.  Perhaps the state of your marriage is making you read more into the request to meet than there is.  It sounds like you would want there to be the possibility of something with someone.  Remember you still are married, even if it's a sexless marriage.

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Not fine to meet with exGF if you feel the need to hide the fact.[/quote]
OP here. Not thinking of hiding it. Thinking of inviting exGF to my home vs. meeting in a restaurant/coffee shop. So I would tell DW; question is how is she likely to react...although just realized while typing this - there's two issues. [b]One is should I tell DW [/b]and two is does exGF want to meet me or the family ? Not being purposely obtuse - sure I will get flamed.[/quote]

I don't understand...are you asking if you should tell DW you are planning on inviting the exGF to your house or tell her it's an exGF?
I would tell your wife otherwise you are asking for trouble when the exGF shows up.

Besides, you don't really know your exGF. You are remembering what was and romanticizing it. You don't know if she's the psycho from Fatal Attraction.

Regardless, you and your wife need to talk (seriously) about your marriage. If sex is important to you, you need to speak up.
My DH and I are TRYING to have sex but the darn kids keep interrupting. It's been almost a week and I'm going crazy with frustration.

If she doesn't want to have sex with you, there is a REASON. You need to figure out that reason and work on fixing your marriage.[/quote]

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