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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I want to be adult about the whole thing and be sensitive to wife's feelings. Her removing the physical and emotional support from our marriage has made me less pliable. And not that I am looking for a fight, but if it was an impetus to force the conversation regarding the long term viability of our marriage that might not be a bad thing. [/quote]

OP if you want to have a convo with your wife about the long-term viability of your marriage, then have the conversation. Using your HS flame as "an impetus to force the conversation" starts the two of you on unequal footing and frankly, is a d*ck move (to both ladies).

A sexless marriage would be a no-go for me, so I feel you. If you need more, make that your focus, and be honest about it.[/quote]
OP here. Point taken. I have had the conversation which I why I alluded to that fact that we may both be staying in the marriage for the children. I don't think either one of us is strong enough (or perhaps selfish enough) to break up family home.[/quote]

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