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[quote=Anonymous]OP, going back to one of your first posts, what do you mean by having your child eat meat is a dealbreaker?  Obviously the kid shouldn't be forced to eat something she doesn't like, but it's sounding like some of this is based more on your insisting on having things your way than the child's actual needs. You seem upset that your DH has "forgotten" that you told him you wanted to be a SAHM when your kids were little, but you do understand that just saying that, even if DH agrees, doesn't necessarily mean you will be able to do it?  $218K is a nice HHI for sure, but in the DC area it doesn't necessarily make you feel all that financially secure. Things like being a SAHM, working pt vs FT, career choices, etc., are not one time decisions, and you can't plan everything in advance. They are constantly evolving and you often have to revisit and reconsider once the reality sets in, to make sure what you are doing is really best in the long run. Your DH didn't sign a pact in blood that you could work very pt for x amount of years after each birth.

Finally -- am I understanding correctly that you guys are even discussing having more children??? And you are pushing for it, even though you regret marrying your DH every day with every fiber of your being?  Baaaaaad idea. Take the 2nd kid off the table indefinitely and start focusing on fixing what you've got now. [/quote]

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