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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And what if your dad said "I haven't witnessed any accidents, hit and run or otherwise."? How would your DH keep up the ruse then?[/quote]

Our "plan" was for husband to go to bio-father's office, identify himself as a Blank City Detective and ask to speak with him privately.  Once alone, he would tell bio-father who he was and what he wanted - hand my bio-father the medical questionnaire our doctor gave us - and them tell bio-father he could tell his co-workers, secretary, etc. that this Blank City Detective wanted to talk to him about seeing a hit and run or witnessing some other auto accident.

It isn't a ruse - it's just a way to give bio-father a way to cover my husband's visit!

I really explained this badly - I'm sorry!   [/quote]

That's not at all how you explained it initially. In addition, if he has a wife he may not want to speak privately. Then what? This is just an all-around poor idea. Very childish that you would send someone to ask on your behalf.[/quote]

Chances are bio-father's wife doesn't work in his business office.

[b]And so what if I am being childish?!  I want the information without having any contact with the man who knocked up my mother and never lifted one finger to help her!!!  Her entire life from the age on 19 on was to work (she had to quite college - he didn't) and work hard and take care of me.  My mother gave me a wonderful life but she never had one.  [/b][/quote]

So what? You are an adult. If you are genuine in your quest for information you would care about handling my this with maturity.[/quote]

+1000   You sound too melodramatic, OP.  Just because somebody in the other thread did it with a positive outcome, doesn't mean you need to play "copycat."  This is not trending.

You didn't "need" medical history until you read about what the other pregnant lady's husband did.  [/quote]

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