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OP,

Take the high road. It's your only option to save your sanity. Send a wedding gift and be glad you don't have to refuse the invite.

The one to be pitied and prayed for is actually your sister. She does not sound stable: multiple relationships with children, as well as not inviting you to her wedding? Very immature.

So the best you can hope for is that they stay together, and that they raise their children well!

You don't have to be besties with them - just smile and say hello when you meet them at unavoidable family gatherings. Like a PP said, focus on the children, they are innocent.

The only thing that worries me in all this is the man "staring" at you. If that is true, he seems a little deranged, which might be why you seem so inordinately upset by the situation. Do you think he is embarrassed and doesn't know how to act in your presence? Or do you think he is intimidating you in very controlling unhealthy way? In that case I would be afraid for your sister and her children.

So limit personal presence. Pay all the long-distance lip-service and send all the wishes and gifts required by the occasion, however outraged you feel internally about it. In time it will all be water under the bridge. (If he's not crazy, that is.)
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