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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me, I would want my DH to admit fault so that I knew he got it and wouldn't do it again. Not because I would want him to feel bad or to punish him. Not sure of that is where OP is coming from but my 2 cents. [/quote] You are missing the point. There is never going to be another exactly similar situation - this isn't about who is at fault for the state of the laptop, but about whatever messed up dynamic that lead OP not to just say, like a reasonable adult, "please put my laptop under the seat" and not have it go any further. It's not the laptop, it's what the laptop represents. My suspicious is that there is no one party at fault for this dynamic, but that they have to recognize it and change the pattern together.[/quote]
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