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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IMO, only children tend to be more self absorbed later in life. I have multiple close friends who I love, but who we all describe as "such only children" and the meaning is instantly understood. The only time I've seen only children avoid this is when there is a specific source of hardship in childhood so that they learn it isn't all about them (eg, a parent has an illness). Having said this, I don't love the idea of having a second child, but the above keeps me motivated to do so. [/quote] Your opinion is stupid. It's cute that you ascribe your own personal experiences to the general public. Like you, apparently, I have multiple only child close friends, and none of them are self-absorbed. The most self-absorbed people I know have siblings, in some cases, more than one. I guess -- by your logic that one person's anecdotal evidence = truth -- that means that those of us with siblings (including me) are way more self-absorbed than only children. [/quote] Hence why I said my opinion. I don't assume it's your opinion or your experience. My point was that my experiences shape my [b]personal[/b] opinions which in turn shape my behavior. Quite logical actually. Your unwarranted aggression is intense though... Good luck with that. [/quote] I'm not the poster you are responding to. However, I think it's shitty and mean of you and your friends to use "such only children" in a derogatory and insulting way. Therefore, it is my [b]opinion[/b] that you are an a-hole.[/quote]
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