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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just think some couples are better off in separate bedrooms. Couples that include a loud snorer for example.  So rather than be resentful just deal.  A 2nd bedroom needs to be a non-negotiable the same way having a kitchen is, or a room for the baby.

People would really consider divorce before trying the spare bedroom route for 12 months? That boggles my mind.  The solution is so simple, and yet the ramifications of divorce are so profoundly not.

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I think people get stuck in ther mind that couples share beds and bedrooms, and its so fundamental to their idea of marriage they just cant view it as nothing more than a logisitical arrangement. Also once chronic sleep dep sets in, some people really just get so depressed and trapped feeling. I know from experience! My husband snores terribly. He wishes we would sleep together, but, as I put it, and have managed to convince him: if we are sleeping we are ASLEEP and WHO CARES where we are located when we are not conscious!! Had great sex with him last night and then said goodnight and went off to MY bed to SLEEP. Thats how we do things now.

OP sounds like she is on the right track now. I am so glad to hear it![/quote]

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