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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Drinks and dinner with a coworker may be friendly or a date. Either way, I'm not sure why you forwarded the email rather than accepting or declining. They may have thought you wete crazy or too socially awkward for them to work with.[/quote] OP, I'm sorry, but I have to agree with assessment above. You should have accepted or declined, and leave it at that. Now, a smart thing to do - and that's what I've learned and keep doing when the going gets iffy - would be to save that email exchange, just in case things escalate or develop in the unexpected direction further. Always have a paper trail, most likely than not nothing will happen, but if it does, you might need proof. But reporting an email invitation to HR right off the bat? Overkill![/quote] +1. I think you were in the wrong here. You shouldn't have been fired over it, but I can see why company B identified you as difficult.[/quote]
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