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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did. It had only been six weeks or so but we were seeing each other twice a week and wed already talked about going out of town together a specific weekend in a few months. I didn't want to be planning that if he was seeing other people.

I was pretty sure he wasn't. I asked him how he'd feel about us only seeing each other. He did seem a bit surprised (I brought it up out of nowhere). He asked where that came from and I said I was at a point in my life where I'm ready to care about someone, and I only want to be with that person. He said yes. Mid twenties. [/quote]

I've done something similar twice, each time about 3-4 months into dating (going out multiple times a week.) The first time, it prompted a discussion which culminated in him essentially saying that he was happy right now, but didn't really see a long term future to our relationship. Not what I wanted to hear, but it was better to break up then than for me to keep seeing him, get more and more invested, and later realize he wasn't on the same page as me. The second time the guy was on the same page as I was and now we are married![/quote]
[b]op here, that's great! This was about my 3rd or 4th time confessing my feelings, and it hasn't  panned out in my favor[/b]. [/quote]

OP, cut your losses.  When a  is interested in a woman, he finds time and invests in the relationship, period, end of story.[b]  I have no doubt there is someone out there who is going to be overjoyed meeting you, and vice versa.  Then you can write back and tell us how great things are.[/quote][/b]
it's hard to be optimistic about it honestly, but the good thing about the future is that you never know what it holds. [/quote]

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