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[quote=Anonymous]I probably would but not a revenge cheating but a let's separate and while I am deciding, I get to date.  Lots of people on DCUM seem to say that cheating does not automatically equal divorce and they choose to stay with spouse due to finances, young kids whatever.  However, for me personally to even consider staying married, I would need an equal opportunity to date and not only get to have sex with someone other than my spouse (as spouse got to do) but basically get to rethink if I still want to be with DH in general and over who else may be out there.  Maybe the sex may be better with so done else.  !aybe I have more in common with someone else.  Once you open Pandora's box ...

I've heard read once you agree to stay after infidelity, you can't keep throwing it up in your partner's face.  For me to let it go, I would need to feel like I had power in the relationship too and I had the opportunity to have sex/intimacy with someone other than my spouse AND then if we still thought we should/could stay married, I would be in a place where that might be possible.  This all assumed the spouse wanted to still stay in the marriage and I thought it may be worth staying married.  If I know we are going to divorce for sure, cheating seems pointless since it will all be above board soon enough and divorce proceedings without the extra drama can be difficult.[/quote]

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