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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm astonished at the people suggesting OP quit her job. You really think that, at the time a marriage is fragile and the couple has three kids to support, THAT's when the woman ought to chuck her professional life?

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Ntice that you said professional life (i.e. career) and not a job to help support the kids.

She could pick a position with flexible hours or something that stressed her out less.

I'm divorced and I got screwed financially in the settlement because of my "career" as opposed to a job so I think the OP is fooling herself if she thinks holding on to her position rather than her marriage is the better financial situation for her kids.[/quote]

Why is everyone telling OP to quit her job??? For all we know, she makes more than H. Maybe H should quit HIS job and stay home with the kids. OP does NOT want to be a SAHM (can't say that I blame her) WHY are you telling her that she should do this?

OP, I think your H has some other issues going on. Doesn't want to hire a babysitter? WTF.  That would solve some of your problems.  You need to have a serious conversation about how you BOTH intend on fixing this.  If he refuses to go to counseling, hiring help, etc, it seems like he's not that interested in working on the marriage. [/quote]

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