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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You obviously don't know anything about women. Our desire happens in the [b]brain[/b]. If you insult us, we are not going to be turned on and the desire is gone. If a guy is being a jerk, it takes a lot of effort to get back in the mood, but then why would we want to get in the mood for a jerk?[/quote]

Jesus Christ.  I'm not trying to fuck YOU.  Of course the key to a woman is her brain.  My point is that many men, myself included, have tried over and over to be romantic, be intimate outside the bedroom, cook dinners, wash dishes- all the stuff I'm asked to do.  If a man does all these things and is rebuffed for sex 90+% of the time, it gets discouraging.  Being rejected by your spouse sucks.  So after a few years of putting in the work and still not getting laid, damn right we may get lazy at times.  But wtf would you do if your spouse refused to fuck you more than a couple times a year for THREE years?  How willing would you be to keep doing all the heavy lifting in the intimacy department with no return?

Of course men and women are different but here's the thing- you expect us to WIN your affection thru your brain.  You know how simple we are- is it too much to just grab our dick and have one for the fun of it?  I will gladly put in the effort 90% of the time if 10% of the time my wife would give a bj just for the sake of a bj.  Meet me somewhere in between, is that too hard?

And to the PP with the infant- OF COURSE YOU'RE TIRED, YOU HAVE AN INFANT AND A TODDLER.  That's not what we're talking about here.  If you're still feeling like this in three years, then you'll be in OP's position.  But almost every man would understand why you're not wanting sexytime now.  Stop being so defensive- you're not in the situation we're talking about here.  But seriously- if you've got time to post this shit on DCUM, you probably have time for a nap.  So don't try to sell the "infant pawing you all day" and "haven't slept for 2 years".  You're buring hours with worthless screentime yet bitching about having no time for yourself.  I'm not buying THAT part of your story.[/quote]

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