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[quote=Anonymous][quote] OP, you need to talk to your wife about sex. Does she ever say "yes!" "don't stop" or "Right there" "just like that" or anything else along those lines? If not, you're not doing the right things and she's not enjoying sex. IT's 50% your responsibility and 50% hers to figure out what works for her. [/quote] OP here. Sometimes she get's into the sex. Sometimes no. The biggest problem with a low-libido DW is trying to predict whether I am supposed to be focused on making sure she has a good time, or focused on finishing myself so she can go back about her day. See the problem? Have tried the sex talks, bought sex toys, literotica, babysitters, etc. But that usually just puts pressure on the situation. Ultimately, it's 50% her responsibilty to get the mood set, and I would be open minded for anything at this point. Ultimately, it seems like you can ruin a mood but can't do much to make someone want it.[/quote]
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