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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Wanna do it?" and tepidly pawing at her are not good initiations. She's going to shoot you down. When she does shoot you down, shrug it off and don't whine. Go do something else that's fun and try again tomorrow or whenever you're in the mood.

Good luck! [/quote]

Yes x 100![/quote]
Thank you. Men seriously need to put in a little effort. [b]Sometimes I'm psyching myself up for sex and then he does something crass, which might be mildly humorous, but when my drive is so fragile it just kills it entirely. [/b]How can I get myself in the psychological place I need to be to be turned on when I'm trying to ignore stupid jokes? Not sexy.[/quote]

Wow, how did you manage to have sex in the past?  Is your husband acting differently than when the two of your were dating?  Is he acting differently than he has in the past with regard to banter or sexual interaction?  You are the one that is being high maintenance, "fragile" as you say, and then making it his fault for behaving as he always has.  Grow a thicker skin and try harder to hold up your end.  You are the one who has turned the tables, not him.  You sound incredibly selfish. [/quote]

No kidding.  Your [b]fragile sexuality[/b] is the result of your husband's lack of effort?  Is your stunning lack of insight his fault too?[/quote]

You obviously don't know anything about women. Our desire happens in the [b]brain[/b]. If you insult us, we are not going to be turned on and the desire is gone. If a guy is being a jerk, it takes a lot of effort to get back in the mood, but then why would we want to get in the mood for a jerk?

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