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You sounds like victim/martyr mom. Sacrificing sleep, your health, your well-being, your marriage, your sex life, your own interests....not good for anyone at all. Why would you do that to yourself, to your husband and to your kids? [/quote]

Because the thing is SOMEONE has to respond to the crying baby, feed it, hold it, change diapers, make doctor's appointments, sooth the baby, do the laundry, the cooking, the cleaning, etc., all while getting by a crappy sleep. And in some homes, the burden of that responsibility falls largely on the mom. So having a husband who is not particularly sympathetic isn't exactly helpful, is it? Does this mom really need someone to kick her while she's down? The thing is, she'd probably be a lot happier and more in the mood if her DH said that he appreciated all that she was doing for their baby, why won't she take a few hours for some sleep and a mani pedi? My DH accused me of being a martyr (with our colicky baby) and SHOCKER I had zero desire to have sex with him. [/quote]

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