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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It wouldn't thrill me. I'm super, super driven, and being around someone who's not would drive me crazy.

But you know what? Somebody's got to be the art teacher at an elementary school. Somebody's got to own the music store and give lessons on the side.

So it may as well be your son, you know? [/quote]

You're so right! I've always been a believer that we need EVERYONE to make this world go round.

So yes, you also need the homeless guy in front of the White House selling his paintings out of the trunk of his car to so that you have someone to point out to your children and say, "See, this is what happens when you have talent but no drive".  We need people you can look at and feel better than because sadly, that's the only way some people can feel good about themselves. :(

But here's the kicker: I'm highly motivated and super driven too. HOWEVER, I wasn't at his age. And therein lies part of my delight. I was able to enjoy a stress-free childhood and high school career without feeling overworked, super tired, and suicidal. But that didn't stop me from growing into adult responsibilities. I'm thrilled my son was able to maintain a sense of humor, sense of self, and not overextend himself as a child....For what?

After juggling the most advanced courses, sports, ECs, community service, less than 5 hours of sleep per night, where do you go? Do you simply peak at 16? Many of those kids end up as happy, productive, successful adults--but no more so than the kid who didn't stress himself out in high school, partied through college, then grew the hell up in adulthood.

I also get annoyed with superiors or other adults who are not as driven as I am. But I remain cognizant of the fact my child is a TEEN--not an adult. I don't expect him to have the sensibilities or work ethic of one right now. (Though that would be nice.)

For your sake and your child's, I hope they are naturally driven. Because trying to hammer that circle into a square hole will frustrate and burn you both out.[/quote]

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