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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of us have been in love and been dumped. I don't see how this means the other person has a right to be mean to the dumper. I have never felt I had a right to be mean, unless the relationship was handled or ended maliciously. Maybe OP's husband has a right to be hurt and a right not to engage in conversations about the relationship. But a right to be mean is going a bit far.  There is nothing wrong with OP seeking closure on a relationship that was as much hers as his. He has a right to protect himself and decline to participate in that closure, and to not want to be friends. But it doesn't make her a jerk for reaching out. He send her a kind message, she responded. Fine for him to leave it there. Fine for her to wish she could get more closure. Fine for her not to get it.[/quote]

Closure...what the heck is closure?  
Is it me or do only women want closure?  
I can't recall ever hearing a guy saying he wants closure.

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Men should seek closure, but they often don't. And that's why there are a lot of men out there who have no clue how to behave in subsequent relationships.[/quote]

Oh....now I understand!!
So all these lonely depressed neurotic hypercritical and hyper-paranoid women who completely destroy subsequent relationships by continually harping on some crap that happened 20 years ago or refuse to just freaking move on already from some past romance - those women didn't get proper closure is that what you're saying?[/quote]

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