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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of us have been in love and been dumped. I don't see how this means the other person has a right to be mean to the dumper. I have never felt I had a right to be mean, unless the relationship was handled or ended maliciously. Maybe OP's husband has a right to be hurt and a right not to engage in conversations about the relationship. But a right to be mean is going a bit far.  There is nothing wrong with OP seeking closure on a relationship that was as much hers as his. He has a right to protect himself and decline to participate in that closure, and to not want to be friends. But it doesn't make her a jerk for reaching out. He send her a kind message, she responded. Fine for him to leave it there. Fine for her to wish she could get more closure. Fine for her not to get it.[/quote]

Closure...what the heck is closure?  
Is it me or do only women want closure?  
I can't recall ever hearing a guy saying he wants closure.

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Men should seek closure, but they often don't. [b]And that's why there are a lot of men out there who have no clue how to behave in subsequent relationships[/b].[/quote]

Why is it always the man's fault?  Does everything at the end have to be talked to death when the only thing anyone gives a crap about is hurt feelings and moving on?  To look into someone's eyes that you have shared your life with and say, "I don't want to see you anymore" has to be the worst feeling in the world, no matter which side of that you sit.  [/quote]

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