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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow I wish my parents were as helpful as you all were when I was applying to undergrad back in '10. Neither of my parents went to college so I had absolutely no help in applying (even my counselor was of little help) but I ended up getting into 7 of the 8 schools I applied to. I couldn't imagine not taking charge. I know that you are all afraid of your kids not getting into good schools but perhaps in the future you should just let them figure it out on their own. [/quote]

Very catty judgement to make on family dynamics that you are not privy to at all. Just because my kid is a senior doesn't mean that she still didn't need parenting, encouragement, and an extra kick in the pants to apply to colleges while maintaining her grades, her senior activities, and other issues that I won't divulge here. She still had to fill out the applications, write the essays, and attend alumni interviews. My role as a parent was to take her on college tours to get her interested, help her research the colleges that we thought would be a good fit both academically and financially, and not let her slack off.

Sorry that your parents showed absolutely no interest in your college academic career, but I don't think that's something that is right or appropriate for all families. We're paying for her education and we are invested in her, and it paid off in the way of acceptances and a good learning environment for the next four years of her life. [/quote]

No need to be nasty. I'm the one with the lazy son and I'm sure I had to be more involved in the process than anyone else due to his laziness. However, I did not read PP's post as an indictment or judgment on my/our parenting.

He was simply making a point, and he was correct in his point. I should NOT have been as involved in the process as I was. No need to insult his family and pass judgment on his parents' interest in his academic career as I'm sure that like us, they wanted the best for him as well. They simply TRUSTED him to be able to handle the process. And he was. My kid on the other hand....At 18 I don't trust him to feed his own damn dog during the day. It is what it is.[/quote]

Thank you. This is the poster of that original message. My intent was not to be catty. And let me just say to the rude person who replied to my post...how dare you think that my parents had no interest in my college academic career. Could you not read? The highest level of education they got was high school and it wasn't even in this country so it wasn't a matter of not wanting to help, it was a matter of not knowing at all how to help, you jerk. But whatever, you can be as rude as you want. I successfully got through undergrad in 3.5 years with a 3.96 GPA so I would say I did pretty well for someone who had no idea what college was going to be like at all. [/quote]

Unfortunately, you didn't learn that name calling is childish. Most of us grow out of it by middle school. Your education is incomplete. [/quote]

Give me a break! As if you didn't read all the unnecessary vitriol in that poster's insane response! You must be that crazy lady, always looking to insult because you're so damned miserable. The fact that you want your insults to come off as condescending makes you appear even more pathetic. You/that poster all but said that man's parents didn't care about him and that she's a much better parent who will do a much better job. (Suspect given her daughter's "issues" that can't be divulged.)

Frankly, that Bat Lady was being a jerk. The poster was pretty easy on her considering her off the wall  rant.[/quote]

Very serious (physical) medical issues, but you stay classy and above the fray. [/quote]

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