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[quote=Anonymous][quote]How do I get out of the middle of this? I am tired of being pressured and used as an excuse but then I get yelled at for not playing along. Honestly, his actions did little to convince me there is no drinking problem. It just makes me wonder what he has been telling the therapist![/quote] OP, I went back and reread your first post and was really struck by this paragraph. It sounds like you haven't given up the hope that you can convince your husband to agree with your interpretation of the situation. You need to let go of that hope and grieve over the loss. Then you need to move forward to take care of yourself and your children, which, as other pps have suggested, means taking steps to leave your marriage. I do wish you'd try Al-Anon. It's not for everybody but you should at least investigate it. Good luck to you. Your dh sounds like a master of manipulation. It will take a lot of strength for you to disengage from it. [/quote]
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