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[quote=Anonymous]@12:19, I actually do have a clear idea. I don't think he should ever drunk again. I even told him again after this latest event, but he made excuses (that blamed me) for why he was snippy with the kids. He is adamant he is not an alcoholic, he is adamant I not talk to his therapist, and he is in the process of firing the internist who used to see us both for any years. He also claims our joint doc sent him to someone previously who confirmed he is not an alcoholic. He won't let me talk to that person either. And he's firing our doc because he wants to put him on psych meds because he thinks he is bipolar. Any time I make any suggestion or comment about hisctherapy or alcohol I'm told his therapist says I'm dead wrong. He says I am trying to control him and let him do it. That's why I won't draw lines. He's the one "gas lighting" people who don't really know him into saying he's fine. In a way, I feel like I gave him the rope he asked for, and he hung himself with it. Now I have to figure out how to find the strength and energy to leave.

As for my whack job status, if I had the energy I would go find my post from several years ago where he woke up especially hung over and started screaming from upstairs. I ran upstairs to see what was wrong and he screamed I had to get our 18-month old daughter out of our room and away from him because "she is a bitch." That's what I worry about reoccurring if I leave and he gets joint custody, which he will.[/quote]

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