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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can only speak directly for my part in my situation. I'm a husband. We have sex maybe 3x per month. This is an increase from recent years where it got down to once a month -- including a stretch where we went 2 months and my alarm bells started ringing. My wife has stated that she thinks once a week is probably the "right" amount. I'd like it a little more than that. I think, intellectually, she'd like it that amount but in reality she's not in the mood that frequently.

So, that's background. When we're up to once a week and I get rejected, it's not that big a deal. When it's been 2 weeks or more, I initiate and get rejected, I start to seethe. When she says "maybe tomorrow" and doesn't initiate tomorrow herself, I get particularly angry. When I've tried to initiate and she puts me off until "tomorrow," I regard it as being on her to initiate. This is not a great strategy for getting laid, but seems to help me have a self-righteous pity party for myself when she doesn't follow through. [/quote]

You just described my situation to a T.[/quote]

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